Wednesday, October 21, 2026

Back @ The Quarterdeck.

Our day began at 4, this morning, we went through the chores and were ready by a quarter past 6. Monish, our sa'arathi came in by a half past 6 and we set off soon after. Were helped in loading the car by our caretaker.

Stopped at the Nagaraja kshetram at Randalummoodu as is our normal custom.

His younger son, Aniyan had fetched up from Saudi Arabia earlier in the morning and he, too, had dropped by to meet us and take our blessings. He should be with his folks over the next 45 days! He has got much of the family's debt cleared with his earnings and looks after his parents.

We'd shaped our course toward the Sri Parthasarathy temple at Aranmula, where Lekha wanted to do the "matha thekoing" and we'd a wonderful darshan by about 8. Had breakfast soon after.

The drive was fine and we passed Ponkunnam, Perumbavoor, Muvattupuzha vis Thrissur.

Lunch was had at the Gokula Nandana, 9 km north of Angamali.

Reached The Quarterdeck by 4 and the opening up of the house, unpacking and seeing off our sa'arathi were quickly done without delay.

It was a quiet evening when we watched our favourite serials on television.


Tailpiece.

It rained at Guruvayur around 7.

Tuesday, October 20, 2026

Dussehra.

Dasha Hara is a Sanskrit word which means removal of ten bad qualities within you :-

* Ahankara                                       Ego
* Amanavta                                      Cruelty
* Anyaaya                                        Injustice
* Kaama vaasana                             Lust
* Krodha                                          Anger
* Lobha                                           Greed
* Mada                                            Over Pride
* Matsara                                         Jealousy
* Moha                                            Attachment
* Swartha                                        Selfishness

Hence, also known as "Vijayadashami" signifying "Vijaya" over these ten bed qualities.

Happy Vijayadashami!
Happy Dussehra!

Monday, October 19, 2026

Forget it.....

Forget the Bucket List. That's for people who want to swim with the dolphins, climb mountains and find themselves in Nepal.

I've been to Nepal, seen a bit of the world and spent half my life wondering what the bloody hell I'm supposed to be looking for.

Turns out, I ain't trying to find myself anymore. I'm trying to find my glasses, remember why I walked into the kitchen and work out why everything hurts when I get up.

So, here's my Forget it list.

1. Impressing people I don't like
    Years of wearing the right suit, saying the right things and nodding at people talking absolute 
     bollocks.     

    Forget it.
    If you're talking bollocks, I'll probably tell you.

2. Going places because I feel obliged.
    Weddings, parties, dinners with people I barely know.

    Forget it.
    I've got a sofa, a television and a cat who thinks I'm an employee.

3. Understanding modern technology
    Apparently my fridge connects to the internet. Why? Is it lonely? Does it want to meet other
    fridges?

   Forget it.
   Just keep the milk cold.

4. Worrying what people think.
    At 20, I wanted everyone to like me.
    At 40, I wanted everyone to respect me.
    At 60, I've realised half of them weren't thinking about me anyway.

    Forget it.
    That's 40 years of unnecessary administration.

5. Saving things for special occasions.
    The expensive whisky. The good shoes. The nice plates.

    Forget it.
    What's the special occasion? My funeral?

6. Winning every argument.
    Once I'd spend hours proving someone. Now, if someone tells me the Earth is flat, which side
    Australia is on.

    Forget it.
    Life is too short to argue with idiots.

7. Acting my age.
    Apparently, I'm supposed to enjoy gardening, sensible shoes and discussing cholesterol.

   Forget it.
   I still laugh at inappropriate jokes and behave like a teenager.
   Only difference is, now I need two days to recover.

8. Waiting until retirement.
    Work hard. Save money, enjoy life when you retire.
    But nobody guarantees you'll get there. Or that your knees will still work.

    Forget it.
    I'm enjoying mine now.

Sunday, October 18, 2026

A tryst with the goddess.

Our day began at 4 AM thanks to our religious foray this morning. Went through our chores, lit up the puja room lamp, recited my prayers, bath and were ready by a quarter past 6. However, Monish, our sa'arthi fetched up by 7; he'd washed down the car with four buckets of water and we set off on our journey.

Picked up Lekha's sister, Letha from her home and resumed our journey.

Reached the Kattil Mekkanath temple at the coast off Karunagappally. Despite the fact that today was "pooja veyppu", the crowd was much less and manageable. Had a quick bite of breakfast of dosas, sambar washed down with a good cup of coffee.

Had a very good 'darshan' of the Goddess and we were on our return trip soon after.

Reached Kottarakkara, picked up our lunch and were at home by 1. 

Lunch, watched television for a while followed by siesta.

The evening chores and did Lekha's monthly 'aarathi' with the silver coin.

Tomorrow morning, we shall be off to toothy Mallan's clinic at Muhamma to fix my right dental bridge and for Lekha's review.

On completion, we shall return to Raj Nivas and proceed to Guruvayur on Wednesday morning.

Saturday, October 17, 2026

Take time to think....

Take time to think...
it is the source of power..

Take time to read....
it is the foundation of wisdom...

Take time to play....
it is the secret of staying young...

Take time to be quiet...
it is the opportunity to see God...

Take time to be aware....
it is the opportunity to help others...

Take time to love and be loved...
it is God's greatest gift...

Take time to laugh...
it is the music of the soul...

Take time to be friendly...
it is the road to happiness....

Take time dream....
it is what the future is made of...

Take time to pray....
it is the greatest power on earth...

Friday, October 16, 2026

At Raj Nivas.

Our day had begun at 4, this morning. We went through our chores and were ready by a quarter past 6. Earlier, our chauffeur, Monish had arrived by a quarter past 4 from Kottarakkara. He came by a KSRTC bus.

We kicked off at a quarter past 6, had a darshan of 'Thiruvambadi Krishnan' - Lekha had always been wanting to visit the temple after I'd told her about my morning visits to the temple during her surgery. We pulled it off today, phew!

We'd breakfast at the Aryaas Hotel, after the turn to the airport, at around a quarter to 9 and reached Satish Bhat's clinic by a quarter past 10. He was very happy with my overall medical condition with HBA1C hovering at 5.4! After Lekha's and my interaction with him, we set off for Shenoy Care. 

The formalities of registration, tests, meeting with Dr Aswathy by a half past 12 but had to wait till a half past 3 to meet Dr Padmanabha Shenoy. He, too, was happy with Lekha's medical condition and has reduced the HQCS regime.

We left for Raj Nivas, soon after and reached home by 8 PM. Expressed my unhappiness with the tall, wild grass at the courtyard; Monish left soon after.

The television did not come on stream for the evening.

Hit the sack at our usual time of 11. Nice to be back at home!