It was disgusting to read about the Brazilian football goalkeeper, Bruno Fernandez who's landed himself in ignominy thanks to his brutal bent of mind. A one time hero to his countrymen, he's hated and despised by the very same people who wish that he's punished for the dastardly crime that he'd committed two years ago.
He and his goons, had murdered Elisa - a model with whom he'd sired a child but was doubtful as to whether the child was his - cut her body into pieces and fed them to the dogs after violating her! The case comes up for hearing in the Brazilian top court shortly.
My take.
I've spoken about this subject earlier but would like to reiterate my thoughts yet again. Love is a beautiful thing and when one's in love, one's confident of achieving anything and everything while having the object of one's love by one's side. There're positive vibes all around. And it's this state of bliss that's rudely shattered when the same love goes sour. To the extent feasible one tries to cling on to the relationship based on the finer feelings, thoughts and small incidents that added sparkle during its vibrancy.
If the relationship cannot be retrieved, there's no point in forcing it to stay as a healthy bond has to come by naturally and with ease. The mutual feelings must come from within and communication is vital.
And once the decision to disengage has been arrived at, a healthy distance must be maintained and each other's privacy is to be respected as the strain of coming out of a relationship takes an unimaginable toll on the affected parties - and make no mistake, the scars can be equally intense for both the parties involved, they don't have a gender bias!
Tailpiece.
What makes me sad in this particular case of Bruno and Elisa are the following:-
(a) Communication had broken down irretrievably between the two.
(b) The crafty manner in which Elisa was lured to her gory end by promising wedlock and acceptance of
the child's fatherhood.
(c) How can someone be killed with whom you've had intimate moments?
(d) The inherent bestiality and perversity in violating her before killing her.
(e) The insane rage that made him and his cronies to cut the lifeless body to pieces. I was under the
impression that a sportsman like him could never possess such negative behaviour.
(f) And lastly, imagine the plight of the child as it grows up against the backdrop of the ghastly story
its birth had scripted.
PS.
A human being has no right to take away another's life, however unacceptable the other is.
He and his goons, had murdered Elisa - a model with whom he'd sired a child but was doubtful as to whether the child was his - cut her body into pieces and fed them to the dogs after violating her! The case comes up for hearing in the Brazilian top court shortly.
My take.
I've spoken about this subject earlier but would like to reiterate my thoughts yet again. Love is a beautiful thing and when one's in love, one's confident of achieving anything and everything while having the object of one's love by one's side. There're positive vibes all around. And it's this state of bliss that's rudely shattered when the same love goes sour. To the extent feasible one tries to cling on to the relationship based on the finer feelings, thoughts and small incidents that added sparkle during its vibrancy.
If the relationship cannot be retrieved, there's no point in forcing it to stay as a healthy bond has to come by naturally and with ease. The mutual feelings must come from within and communication is vital.
And once the decision to disengage has been arrived at, a healthy distance must be maintained and each other's privacy is to be respected as the strain of coming out of a relationship takes an unimaginable toll on the affected parties - and make no mistake, the scars can be equally intense for both the parties involved, they don't have a gender bias!
Tailpiece.
What makes me sad in this particular case of Bruno and Elisa are the following:-
(a) Communication had broken down irretrievably between the two.
(b) The crafty manner in which Elisa was lured to her gory end by promising wedlock and acceptance of
the child's fatherhood.
(c) How can someone be killed with whom you've had intimate moments?
(d) The inherent bestiality and perversity in violating her before killing her.
(e) The insane rage that made him and his cronies to cut the lifeless body to pieces. I was under the
impression that a sportsman like him could never possess such negative behaviour.
(f) And lastly, imagine the plight of the child as it grows up against the backdrop of the ghastly story
its birth had scripted.
PS.
A human being has no right to take away another's life, however unacceptable the other is.
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